Hello sweeties :)
Actually I wanted to keep this blog all positive and cheery but well, today I want to talk about a more serious topic as it is on my mind for a really long time now. But first, let me ask you a question: Do you also have those kind of friends, who only make you feel bad/not goodlooking (you name it) so that they can feel better? Well~ I had those friends in the past and I let myself get influenced by them so much that I am still uncertain about myself sometimes.
So, what is my point you may ask ;) Especially in a fashion like Lolita or in any other fashion at that point there are people who have low self-esteem and instead of working on the flaws, they dislike on themselves, they make themselves look better through making people with even lower self-esteem feel bad or they give them bad advice so that they look more beautiful. Some years ago I also was bothered by this kind of behaviour, I felt that I was not good enough and such but than I realized that the only one who can make me feel good or bad is me. So I slowly worked to build my self-esteem and I failed often but now, at the end of this year 2012 I can say that I am on a good way. So~ also for you, whatever people might say to you about your appereance, way of thinking or whatever, as long as you do everything with all your heart and believe in what you are doing, you are doing great ^^ Don't let those friends who need to make you feel bad to feel their best bother you and live your life the way you want it~ Keep your head up high, you are awesome!
Thank you for those words! You are so right! Last Year there was a Girl that moaned about her weight everytime we met & when she lost weight she spoke abaout it even more. Also she always talked abaut the stuff she bought. We were 3 girls meeting every week. And me & my best friend have no parents that can buy us everything. We are earning our living by ourselfs & thats not much in fact. So she let us feel bad so often. Now that i stopped meeting her i feel much besser with myself & have more fun in fact too.
ReplyDeleteYou're welcome ^^ And it is just something I realized over the years. You can't let your happines be influenced by what other people think...and as long as yourself feel good with who you are thats all what matters ^^
DeleteIch finde den Post von dir total gut, ich bin sicher er macht der ein oder anderen Person Mut *-* <3
ReplyDeleteDanke ^///^
DeleteHab halt einfach geschrieben wie es ist :) Niemand sollte sich schlecht fühlen nur damit sich ein anderer besser fühlt >.<