OOTD - Smalltown Princess // The way we perceive others

Hello sweeties <3

Although in my opinion this outfit is nothing to fancy it has a special meaning for me now. I was wearing it for a visit to my grandfather shortly after Christmas. As the day was really nice and I love the town my grandpa lives in I decided to take a walk and this is where it happened. Some teenage girls decided to not only laugh at me but insult me in a rather obscene way. 

Normally I would just ignore those comments but this day made me think about how people with a different look are perceived and treated by the majority of the people. Although we might be living in an openminded society some things are still net really accepted yet. For example looking different. Most people have the decency to keep their thoughts to themselves but there are also many people who have to push their believes and thoughts on others. I think this is rather sad! I don't want everyone to love Lolita or other "extreme" fashions but at least accept other peoples decisions to wear what they want. No one is forcing you to look or like it. It is probably impossible to change all the people in the world to accept people who are different but hey, I will try anyways! I think everybody should wear what he/she wants - If it makes people happy I don't have to like it. I can give my criticism about it but who am I to decide what makes other people happy?

Dress: H&M

Belt/Blouse: ebay

Cardigan: No Tabu

Tights/Hat: H&M

Shoes: Deichmann

Have a nice and relaxed weekend <3

xoxo

Posture, posture, posture...

Hello sweeties <3

Today I want to talk about a topic that got me many sleepless nights...oh well, thats not really true but I really thought about it alot. I am talking about posture while wearing Lolita. I often see really really pretty dressed and cute Lolitas and adore there style lots and lots but sometimes it happens when they start to walk and all the cuteness is destroyed just because the walk like a tramp. The back is hunched, the steps are far to big and all in all they walk like a men. I think the right posture is really important in Lolita. In my opinion it is as important as the clothes itself because as I already stated if you walk like a tramp no-one believes that you really proud of the fashion you are wearing. You should keep your head high, straighten your shoulders and take smaller steps. Although it sounds so easy one is inclined to easily forget everything and fall into their old patterns but if you try walking like that you really feel more confident. So~ I know this is a kinda critical topic and I also know that I am not perfect and that I also fall back into the all-so comfy walking, but I wanted to get that topic off my chest. So~ what do you think about it? Can you agree or am I totally wrong? ;)

Thank you for reading my two cents to this topic <3

*sends love*